It’s what people observe, what teachers comment on, and what can be “unacceptable” or “exemplary.” In German, that’s das Verhalten. This is your German word of the day, and it’s essential when talking about how people act—at work, in school, or in society.

The noun Verhalten means behavior, conduct, or demeanor, and it’s one of the 1000 most frequently used nouns in German. Whether you’re reading a psychology paper or telling your child to calm down, this word will come in handy.

It’s a neuter noun, so we say das Verhalten (gender trouble? Our super-clear video lesson will help you figure it out fast: https://deutschable.com/course/lesson-3-3/).

Pronunciation

Verhalten is pronounced [fer-HAHL-ten].

  • Ver sounds like “fair,”

  • halt like “halt” (but softer),

  • en like “uhn”

  • Stress is on the second syllable: ver-HAL-ten

It has a measured, neutral tone—perfect for describing someone’s actions.

Example sentences:

Sein Verhalten war sehr respektvoll.
His behavior was very respectful.

Dieses Verhalten ist inakzeptabel.
This behavior is unacceptable.

Nuance and usage tips

Verhalten refers to the way someone acts—either in a moment or as a pattern.

You’ll often see:

  • gutes/schlechtes Verhalten – good/bad behavior

  • auffälliges Verhalten – noticeable or problematic behavior

  • soziales Verhalten – social conduct

  • aggressives Verhalten – aggressive behavior

It’s used in:

  1. Everyday social life – school, relationships, workplace

  2. Legal/official contexts – behavior reports, warnings

  3. Psychology – behavioral studies

Also important:

  • sich verhalten – the reflexive verb form, meaning “to behave”

    Wie verhältst du dich in Stresssituationen? – How do you behave under stress?

How does this word come up in real conversations?

Germans use Verhalten to evaluate or describe actions in almost any setting:

“Sein Verhalten war komisch.” – His behavior was strange.
“Das war typisches Verhalten unter Druck.” – That was typical behavior under pressure.

It’s also what you’ll see on a Schulzeugnis (school report card) under the section labeled “Verhalten.”

Sample Dialogue (Beginner Level)

Mia: Warum ist Leon traurig?
Timo: Die Lehrerin war nicht zufrieden mit seinem Verhalten.
Mia: Hat er gestört?
Timo: Ja, er hat die ganze Zeit geredet.

Mia: Why is Leon sad?
Timo: The teacher wasn’t happy with his behavior.
Mia: Was he disruptive?
Timo: Yes, he talked the whole time.

Grammatical case examples:

Nominative:
Das Verhalten der Kinder war vorbildlich.
The children’s behavior was exemplary.

Accusative:
Ich verstehe sein Verhalten nicht.
I don’t understand his behavior.

Dative:
Mit dem Verhalten bin ich nicht einverstanden.
I don’t agree with the behavior.

Genitive:
Die Ursache des Verhaltens ist unklar.
The cause of the behavior is unclear.

Neuter case pattern: das, das, dem, des

Word variations and language tidbits

Helpful related words:

  • Verhaltensregel – rule of conduct

  • Verhaltensstörung – behavioral disorder

  • Verhaltensänderung – behavior change

  • Verhaltensweise – manner of acting

  • Verhaltensforschung – behavioral research

  • Verhaltenskodex – code of conduct

Note: Verhalten tends to be neutral and clinical—it describes what’s seen, not necessarily judged. For more judgmental words, Germans might use Auftreten (demeanor) or Art (manner).

📘 Duden entry: https://www.duden.de/rechtschreibung/Verhalten
🎥 Learn Verhalten and the rest of the top 1000 German nouns in our free online video course: https://deutschable.com/nouns/

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About the Author Stephan

Stephan has been a professional language teacher since the early 2000s. He's been calling Berlin his home since 2006, when he started managing (and founding his own) language schools in addition to teaching German and English. He's the owner of Deutschable and loves writing about language, history, and game changers.

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